Dating 20 year older
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.
Though this list may sound like it’s targeted toward young ladies seriously contemplating shacking up with a significantly older man (because it partially is), it’s also for those men who believe proposing to someone in her 20s as they approach 50 is a grand idea.
You guys should consider what it will be like for a much younger lady to age by your side as you really age.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
More success, more sophistication, a great sense of self - the benefits of dating an older man are as blatant as they are numerous. For more of the obvious perks of dating an older man, read on below...
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If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.
Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.