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If you are surrounded by people who don’t let questions linger in the air too long before they feel compelled to answer them, Casey’s words will be an anthem of hope for you, too. I remember sitting in a night class, shoulders rounded, eyes heavy, crafting schemes to stay awake for the remainder of the time. To that point my whole life and faith had been wrapped up in definite answers and facts.
But size isn’t everything – as anyone who has just wrapped up a three-hour swiping session on Tinder will attest. What I heard then – and what I hear now – in the first line to Oriah Mountain Dreamer’s epic poem was a deeper vein of gold running below the surface, below the obvious.The ache of that dating relationship that isn’t what we had hoped or prayed for but we stay in it because we truly love that person.The ache of why she left and now I am raising a family on my own.The aches of watching injustices accumulate like Michigan snow.